Being a masterful lover is not about experience. There are plenty of men who are experienced but boring lovers. I know many women who divorced such guys. Here is a letter that appeared in a national magazine. Mark Cunningham read this to his students in one of his I'm a single average looking business man in my mid forties. During the past three years I've slept with every married woman I have desired. I meet them in super markets, bookstores, and record shops. I invite them for coffee, and the rest is easy. From these encounters, I have observed the 1. I've not met a woman whose husband has made love to her properly in the past six months. 2. Many of these women had never had a multiple orgasm. Two had never had orgasms until we went to bed. 3. None of these women experienced any major guilt from these encounters. 4. Most view they are neglected, and view our time as luxurious sin. In the mean time, I've collected a casual harem. I'm never pushy, they call me. Can you explain why so many men are such neglectful lovers? Signed T.G. That letter was not to illustrate that you should go out and pick up married women. Certainly not. It is simply to illustrate that there are a lot of men who are lousy thoughtless lover. The sobering truth is that 30% of women have never had an orgasm. 70% of women have never had an orgasm in intercourse. Over half of all women have faked an orgasm.
